Love Numerology: Whom Are You Most Compatible With?

Love numerology. This is a super fun topic, so get cozy and get ready.

First, we’ll chat about the numbers that determine compatibility (and how to find them). Then we’ll get to the good stuff — the numbers that are compatible with each other.

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About Love Numerology

We all want someone that’s a yin to our yang — the Ricky to our Lucy. This is where love numerology can swoop in and offer insight.

You will have the best relationship with a partner that has a Life Path number that compliments yours.


Because your Lifepath number reveals the true you. It also represents who you were at birth, before anyone influenced you.

Before we move on, you’ll need your Life Path number, and your partner’s number.

  • Learn how to calculate your Life Path number yourself, or use the button below and drop in your birth date.
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Got your numbers?

Great, let’s keep going.

Your life path traits

The traits you were born with are natural, so when you find someone else with those same traits, magic happens!

For example, let’s say you’re a Lifepath number three; that means you’re social, creative, and expressive.

A partner with a compatible Lifepath number values these traits, and will support you. “You want to turn our spare room into a yoga studio, darling? Yes, let’s do it!”

When your numbers compliment one another, your partner will feel like a true soul mate!

On the flip side, if your numbers aren’t compatible, your relationship can still work, but you may need to do some extra compromising. (See chart below)

Love numerology and your destiny number

Your Expression number is also helpful in love numerology.

Your Expression number (or Destiny number) defines your goals.

For example, if your partner wants to live on a farm and raise chickens and you want to travel the world, well… you see how that could be a problem!

Number Compatibility

Now let’s get to the good stuff — the compatibility list.

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Love Numerology List

Tip: We don’t use the Master numbers 11 and 22 for love numerology, only the core numbers 1 – 9. So, if you are an 11, use the number 2 for compatibility. And if you are a Master number 22, use a 4

Numerology Number 1

As a numerology number 1, you make magic with other 1’s, 5’s, and 7’s. But you’ll need to compromise with the numbers 3, 8, and 9.

Your most challenging relationships will be with 2’s, 4’s, and 6’s.

Numerology Number 2

According to love numerology, 2’s are super compatible with other 2’s, 4’s, and 8’s. We’re talking heaven on earth!

A 2 paired with a 3, 6, or 9 can also be wonderful or just… eh. In these relationships, you get what you give.

On the flip side, your most challenging relationships will be with 1’s, 5’s, and 7’s.

Numerology Number 3

The best love numerology for a 3 happens with another 3, a 6, or a 9. But there may be some bumps in the road if you connect with a 1, 2, 5, 4, 7, or 8.

Sorry! You’re just SO amazing that it takes another amazing person to bring out your awesomeness!

  • Learn more about numerology number 3, including characteristics

Numerology Number 4

Fours rock with other 2’s, 4’s, and 8’s! Yet things may be more challenging with a 6, 7, 1, 3, 5, or 9.

  • Read the life purpose of the number 4

Numerology Number 5

In love numerology, compatibility is easy-breezy for you with 1’s, 5’s, and 7’s. And love with a 3, 9, or 8 can be solid or neutral.

The most challenging relationships for 5’s would be with 2’s, 4’s, or 6’s.

  • More about the challenges and traits of the free-spirited 5

Numerology Number 6

3’s, 6’s, and 9’s can rock your world. But relationships with a 2, 4, 8, 1, 5, 7 are more work.

  • Here’s more info about the numerology number 6

Numerology Number 7

In love numerology, a seven clicks with other 7’s, 5’s, and 1’s. But a relationship between a 7 and 4, or a 7 and 9 can go either way.

The bumpiest relationships for a 7 are with 2’s, 3’s, 6’s, and 8’s.

  • Learn the Life path, compatibility, and personality of the number 7

Numerology Number 8

2’s, 4’s, and 8’s with other 8’s are great! On the flip side, 8’s and 6’s, 1’s, or 5’s can go either way… it can be awesome or awful.

The trickiest relationships are with 3’s, 7’s, and 9’s.

  • Read more about number 8, the success number

Numerology Number 9

If you are a 9, you’re super compatible with 3, 6, and 9. You also click with a 1 and 5.

Neutral relationships include those with the numbers 2 and 7. But a 9 with a 4 or 8 will be a challenge.

  • Read about what makes the number 9 so special

Learn More About Numerology

No doubt about it, numerology is a super interesting and vast topic.

Numbers hold SO much power, and can even teach us more about the meaning of your name!

But that’s just the tip of the iceberg. For more numerology goodness, use the resources below. Before you know it, you’ll be calculating numbers for all your friends!

Articles and resources

A great first step is to calculate the core numbers in your numerology forecast. That’s why you’ll find the instructions on how to calculate each number below.

Tip: You can download a free numerology chart here, which you’ll need to get your numbers.

  • Soul Urge Number. Reveals the authentic you (who you are on a soul level).
  • Expression Number. Gives you insight into possible emotional challenges, and natural gifts.
  • Karmic Number. Your hopes, dreams, hidden fears, and desires.

Best numerology books

Accurate Numerology Readings


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